Familiarity breeds insensitivity -- http://blog.bravewriter.com/2013/08/31/familiarity-breeds-insensitivity/
I am guilty of this –> “There are some remarks parents don’t realize are insensitive. When a child is hurting over a rejection, suggesting the child examine her behavior for how she might have alienated the friend can feel like piling on.”
Why is parenting so hard???? Sigh.